Networking: how to know someone when you don't know anyone

Blind applications are brutal. Knowing one person at a company gets your resume in front of a human, which is the one thing a blind application can't do.

If you don't know anyone at the company yet, that's normal. You're not asking a stranger for a job. You're asking for twenty minutes of advice, which is a much easier yes.

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The free stuff

LinkedIn on a free account

A free LinkedIn account lets you add a personal note to only five connection requests a month. So spend those on the people you most want to talk to, and for everyone else, connect after you've already met or messaged some other way.

Use the alumni tool to search people from your school by company and role. A shared school is the easiest opener there is.

For your profile: a headline that says what you do and what you want next, a photo that looks like you, an About section written in your own voice, and your top skills. That covers most of it.

Ask for advice, not a job

An informational interview is a short conversation with someone doing work you want to do. MIT's career office sums up what you're after as AIR: advice, information and referrals. Keep the ask small and specific:

Hi [name], I'm [one line about you] and I'm exploring roles like yours at [company or field]. Would you be open to a 20-minute call in the next couple of weeks? I'd love to hear how you got into it and what you'd do in my shoes. Totally fine if you're too busy.

Show up with a few questions, keep it to the time you asked for, and send a thank-you the same day.

Asking for a referral

Ask people who know you or your work, or someone you've had a real conversation with. Make it easy for them: send the link to the posting, two lines on why you fit, and your resume. Then let them decide. A referral from someone who doesn't know you doesn't carry much weight, and they know it.

Meet people in person

Job clubs, local meetups and career center workshops are full of people in the same spot you are, and some of them will know someone. Your local American Job Center can point you to job clubs near you.

The free stuff

Start here6

  • LinkedIn

    Profile, job search, alerts, messaging and groups, all on the free plan.

    The catch: Five personalized connection notes a month, and no InMail, unless you pay for Premium.

  • LinkedIn alumni tool

    Search people from your school by employer, city, role and major. Built into every free account.

  • MIT's informational interview guide

    How to find people, reach out, prepare, run the conversation and follow up.

  • Berkeley's informational interview guide

    A step-by-step guide with outreach tips and short videos.

  • Idealist's referral templates

    Three short email templates for asking for a referral, depending on how well you know the person.

  • American Job Center finder

    Find a local center for free workshops, job clubs, career counselors and computer access.

    US only

Good, with a catch2

  • Meetup

    Local and online groups for job seekers and people in your field.

    The catch: You need an account to RSVP, and some events charge a fee.

  • Resume Worded LinkedIn review

    Scores your LinkedIn profile section by section.

    The catch: The detailed feedback is paid.

    Free tier has limits

Worth a look1

  • Lunchclub

    Matches you with other professionals for one-on-one video chats.

    The catch: How useful it is depends on how many people in your field are on it.

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Questions people ask

What is an informational interview?

A short conversation, usually 20 to 30 minutes, with someone doing work you're curious about. You ask for advice and information, not a job.

How do I ask for a referral from someone I don't know well?

Start with a conversation instead of the ask. Once they know a bit about you, make it easy: the posting link, two lines on why you fit, and your resume.

How many personalized connection requests does free LinkedIn allow?

Five personalized notes a month on a free account, per LinkedIn's help center. You can still send requests without a note.

How do I write a LinkedIn headline?

Say what you do and what you want next, in plain words. "Operations manager moving into supply chain analytics" beats a string of buzzwords.